I wish someone had told me in my 20s: Alex, take the biggest risks of your entire life right now. Remember, you have time.
Your 20s can be an overwhelming whirlwind of change. You might find yourself tempted to settle for what's comfortable, convinced that good enough is enough. But let me tell you, that mindset is a dead end. Your 20s are not about playing it safe—they’re about seizing opportunities and taking bold leaps.
In this decade of uncertainty, you're surrounded by constant change. Friends move away, start new relationships, or embark on adventures you might only dream about. The chaos can feel like a spinning vortex, and if you’re not proactive about making big moves yourself, you risk being swept along by the currents of others’ decisions.
Don’t let your life be dictated by the actions of your friends. Instead, be the one who initiates the change. If you’ve always had a dream, now is the time to chase it.
If you’re thinking, “I can’t think of anything,” start by examining your envy. What makes you feel jealous? Is it the trip someone took to Bali, the startup they launched, their dedication to fitness, or the novel they published? Use these feelings as a starting point to fuel your own aspirations.
Your 20s are the perfect time to experiment and make things happen. It’s like that viral meme about the girls' weekend getaway finally making it out of the group chat—it’s time for your dreams to do the same. Don’t just dream about it; live it.
I wish someone had pushed me to quit my job and travel through South America. My initial response might have been, “But I don’t have the money.” True, I didn’t, but that shouldn’t have stopped me. Not taking that leap is one of my biggest regrets.
So, if you have a grand idea but find yourself overwhelmed by excuses, try this: Scale it down. If hiking the Pacific Crest Trail end-to-end feels daunting, start with a shorter section. Always dreamed of volunteering on a farm in Australia but worried about leaving your job? Volunteer locally to get a taste of it. Want to start a podcast? Begin recording on your phone rather than waiting for the perfect equipment.
Small steps can lead to big changes. They build momentum and pave the way for larger dreams. And if you're struggling to find an idea, let me give you a bold move: Move to a new city.
Living in a new place opens up a world of possibilities. It doesn’t have to be forever; it’s about the experience and the growth. Moving in your 20s can transform you, showing you that you can create a fulfilling life anywhere.
Comfort doesn’t lead to growth. Taking risks helps you evolve into the person you’re meant to become, creating a life full of potential and excitement.
I know that by taking the time to read this, whether you found it yourself or someone shared it with you because they believe in you, you’re showing that you want to take control of your life. You have the courage to figure out what you truly want.
Yes, you’ll face days of comparison and self-doubt. That’s part of the journey. But trust that your own timeline will unfold as it should. You deserve to give yourself more credit and trust in the timing of your life.
If you want something, work for it. If you need something, ask for it. Your day is coming, and it starts with the bold choices you make today.
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